The Single Mother Dilemma

Have you ever had that friend, single mother holding her own, but always in a random relationship with Tom, Dick or Harry? Have you ever looked at the children and wondered what goes through their minds? Do they get their hopes up thinking this is daddy, or maybe they are really uncomfortable with this man being around taking up their mother’s time.

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…Imposing themselves in the child’s life! Me too…in this day and age with such a shortage of available hard-working trustworthy men, women have become DESPERATE. Putting aside some of their STANDARDS, including physical requirements in order to secure a family.

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Where did the breakdown begin? Was it the Mother that wasn’t stern enough with her daughter? Allowing her “freedom” to have a boyfriend, to hang out freely with friends? Or was it society? Telling young girls that marraige is not necessary and that they can have a baby and still live life like it’s golden. After having that baby and after it doesn’t work out with Ol boy, now what? Well that girl realizes that she wants love, and maybe she will attain that love by any means necessary. Ladies, why do we sacrifice our happiness, sanity and standards to have “LOVE?”

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We will bring a man in as though he’s another child. Feed him, cloth him, teach him, mold him. Give him access to every facet of our lives with only snippets into his. All in the name of  “LOVE”. We will even neglect the children because you are worried about where he is with your car. Thinking about how much money he’s withdrawing from your account with your bank card. Waiting on him to get home from a night out with God knows who. You are neglecting time that needs to be invested and wisdom that needs to be deposited into your children.

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Now ladies I know you may mean well. I’m sure in most cases you do. But now is the time to turn the tide. Start to invest into raising the young men that you desire. If you desire a gentleman, a hard worker, a provider, start raising your son’s to be just that. To be men that won’t abandon their responsibilities. That will be the head of a family, the men that know what a legal hustle is. Raise your daughter’s to be independent, kind and confident. To stand on her own and hold it all down. And when that prince and princess meet they will begin a new line of Kings and Queens. Stop trying to live “that life” and start creating that life for you and your children. And when you begin to focus on that, the atmosphere has no choice but to answer with great gifts. The children are watching, give them something good to see!

 

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